Although it may seem that strap-ons and dildos have been sensationalized in popular culture only recently, the truth is that they’ve been around for centuries and more. A recent excavation in Germany unearthed the oldest sex toys ever, which are nearly 28,000 years old. Coincidentally, the first sex shop was also opened in Germany in the 1950s. We are far behind our ancestors in terms of this. Strap-ons are having what we could call a modern resurgence in the past few years, with people experimenting more with their sex lives. The strapless strap on is the fun, adventurous cousin of the strap-on, and though it might sound intimidating, it is kind of revolutionary.
Okay, but what are strapless strap-ons?
This toy is just the plot twist you and your partner need to take one of your BDSM sessions to the next level. Its primary function of it is to allow both the partners involved to have sensations at the same time. Unlike a regular strap-on, this product does not come with a harness. To describe its appearance, think of a bent shape, angled letter L. Instead of wearing it around your body, you wear it in your vagina. What I mean to say is that the shorter, bulb-shaped end of the toy, which is angled, is to be inserted into the vagina. This allows you to hold it in place with your pelvic floor muscles, whereas the longer leading protruding end is for penetration.
Why is this relevant?
As I said, strap on dildos have been around for a long time long, mostly because people are curious about sex and anatomy. They want new experiences; some men have wanted to try being on the receiving end of penetration, and women are looking to be the ones doing it. It’s a beautiful and game-changing way to engage in power-play for BDSM enthusiasts, questioning gender binaries and sexuality.
Whether you want to indulge in pegging or lesbian sex, strapless dildos would make for an enjoyable sexual affair. This toy allows both partners involved in the act to be on the receiving end of pleasure —wink, wink. They often come with a bullet vibrator, making it an all more stimulating session for everyone involved.
Benefits of using this toy
- It’s great for solo use and couples, depending on your preference.
- Free from the shackles of a harness or a strap, you can get skin-to-skin contact with your partner while using this.
- It also is hassle-free so that you don’t have to keep adjusting the straps/buckles; you can get down and dirty quickly.
- Because the straps hold down neither of you, you can also have a better angle for different positions.
Types of Strapless strap-ons
Before entering a sex shop to buy one of these babies, it would help to understand better what kinds are available. It’s essential to find the right size, material, and fit that is pleasurable for you and your partner, keeping flexibility and allergies to any material. There are strap-less strap ons with vibrators and without vibrators.
Some of them have bullet vibrators attached; in some of them, the entire appendage vibrates.
It’s important to check battery life, vibration modes, and speed before choosing the right one for you.
- Lifelike Lover Luxe Posable Realistic Silicone Strapless Strap-on
This dildo is great for beginners. It has no fancy features but is as close to the real thing as possible. It has a beautiful finish with veins and provides for a great angle. It has a penetrative length of 6 inches, and the wearing shaft is 4.5 inches, made of silicone.
- Desire Luxury Rechargeable Strapless Strap-on Dildo Vibrator
This toy has a unique feature – bunny ears, which are a great addition to stimulating the clitoris of all parties involved. It has a built-in vibrator as well, with twelve vibration patterns and eight speeds to choose from. It is made from waterproof silicone, is excellent for shower play, and comes with a storage box to lock away when necessary. For the wearer, the shaft is 4.5 inches, and the penetrative shaft is 5 inches. It’s made of silicone and is latex free.
- Tracey Cox Supersex Rechargeable Remote Control Strapless Strap-on Vibrator
This is the dildo of your dreams, putting all else to shame with its wireless remote.
That’s right; this product comes with a wireless remote for an inbuilt vibrator with three different speeds and seven vibration patterns. The bulb-like shaft, which is to be inserted vaginally, is 3.5 inches, with the penetrative shaft being 6.5 inches.
The material used is textured silicone, making the feel of it all more realistic.
Not for the Weak Vagina!
Strapless strap-ons from this adult toy store can give you and your partner extremely satisfying sex, given that the partner who will be the wearer of the strap-on has strong pelvic muscles, i.e., grip. That’s right; this toy works wonders if your vagina (or your partner) has the pelvic strength required. Or it could result in sloppy, uncomfortable sex. It’d be too awkward to take a break and do a few Kegels in the middle of a session too.
To feel all the right sensations, you and your partner could use this product with an additional harness to rely on it for holding while you both can orgasm together!